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Uncluttering

We’ll just skip right over that obligatory line about, “Hey wow it’s been a while since I blogged”, because actually… it hasn’t.  Has it been a while since I blogged *here*? Absolutely, and this is the reason for this post.

I’ve seen a lot of discussions about a separation between online identities and the division between personal and professional profiles on various networks. I’ve seen friends create new profiles and make that separation intensely evident. I am of the opinion that creating separate profiles goes against everything that I believe in, but … faced with some situations and some pressure, even I created some divisions, and I regret it. And so, we shall fix it.

At some point in the past I blogged that this blog would be where I talk about things related to work, and my other site would be for everything else. Well – forget that. It doesn’t work and we’re not doing it. As of this post – this site – “The Social Networking Girl” – is closed. I have another blog that encompasses everything about who I am, what I do, and what I love, and that blog is where everything will be. Enough with the separation.

What I’ve found is that when I create different profiles for different ‘identities’ – I never post to the professional accounts. I never log in, I don’t keep track of them, and I end up feeling that anything I post there is for show, or because I feel like I have to. That’s not real, that’s not fun, and frankly – that’s not cool. So, we’re done with that.

Social networking, social media, and community is all about learning who we are, and who everyone else is. If all you do is post links and present a false front, then how much am I really learning about you or connecting with you? I’ll tell you how much – not at all. I can get those links from feeds, and I can do without the fakity fake stuff, thanks.

If we create professional accounts because we’re afraid of offending people or feel that some of what we might show or say is inappropriate for certain audiences – I get that. I don’t agree with it, but I get it. I understand why some people would feel more comfortable with that and feel that it’s “safer”. I can’t do it and feel good about it, but if you need to do it – then do it and rock it.

I want to know about the little things. I *want* to know what you had for breakfast. I want to see photos of your kids, your pets, and your drinkies. I want to know what movies you like, and what the weather’s like where you live. I want to know what pisses you off, and what makes you feel all smooshy inside. I want to know *YOU* and we cannot know each other unless we’re all being real.

Let’s be real.

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Experts and Gurus and Evangelists, Oh My!

I don’t know about you guys, but I’m sick to death of hearing people refer to themselves as “Social Media Guru” and “Social Media Expert”. Enough already. The fact is, that I don’t think it’s possible for anyone to actually claim those titles and have them be accurate. Our culture, this technology, and the amazing things people all over the world are doing with it – moves too fast.  One cannot be an expert if your field of expertise changes on a minute-by-minute basis. No can do, lovelies.

I really don’t care for the ‘evangelist’ title either, but at least I get that one and I feel it’s more accurate than others, even if it does conjure up images for me of religious fanatics that travel around in circus tents promising to cure people. Wait, maybe that’s exactly the point. Hm. Look at it this way though – if we’re reading and commenting on blogs, updating our status on Facebook, posting photos to Flickr, uploading videos to YouTube, and twittering like our lives depend on it – aren’t we ALL social media evangelists? I think so, even if it’s in a small way. If we’re doing these things, we obviously believe in these things and feel they’re worth our time to do. We may not be preaching the benefits of these things to conference rooms full of people, but we’re walking the walk and that’s the important part.

We’re not ‘experts’ – not any of us. We do the best we can and try to keep up as much as we’re able, but stuff changes fast these days and even if you know pretty much everything there is to know – someone else is doing something new that you’ve never heard about.

Do we call ourselves experts and gurus and evangelists to look cool? To try to stand out among the ever-growing crowd of people using social media? How much do you stand out when everyone and their uncle starts referring to themselves as an expert? Yeah, not much.

Maybe we should focus a little bit more on just doing our best at the things we really love doing. Not because it gets us a crowd of people following us, or worshipping us, but just because it makes *us* happy. Let’s not try to keep up with the Joneses, or the Brogan’s or the Scoble’s – let’s just do our thing and be all about it. It’s not a competition, peeps. Let’s just all do our best at being good people who love what we do.

This post inspired by the quote I’m about to get tattooed on my arm next month -
“Let the beauty of what you love be what you do.” – Rumi

Sloan-C Conference

I’m in San Francisco right now attending the Sloan-C Conference on Emerging Technologies.  Today was the pre-conference session day and I was lucky enough to present during a workshop as part of a team discussing the use of Web 2.0 technologies and Cloud Computing for Student Services. I was asked to be part of the group by a man from the University of Illinois who presented at the Sloan conference last fall in Orlando.

I really like workshop sessions because it seems to be much more about the discussions than about providing content and today’s session was no exception. I was fortunate enough to meet several new people who all had fantastic questions, input, and experiences that they shared.  The other members of the presentation team discussed how they’re using wikis and google apps in their library, and how they’re using jing for screen captures and videos. I presented about how World Campus is using Facebook, twitter, Second Life, etc to build community and strengthen relationships between the university and all of our online students.  Lots of great questions were asked and fantastic discussion occured.  Sometimes it just takes someone giving you an example or talking about things from a different perspective for those doors to open up and then you begin to see opportunities you might not have considered before.

Huge thanks to everyone for participating and attending the session. I look forward to the sessions to come and I’m really glad to be here in such a wonderful city!

zen

Ever since I made the decision to only post work-related things on this blog, I find myself rarely using this blog at all. It’s certainly not that I’ve stopped working, but I think that when I’m feeling creative and in the mood to blog, I want to blog about things that are informal or personal and so they don’t end up here. Not sure that’s a great thing, but that’s where it stands for now.

This past Friday we had a work retreat.  Most work retreats I’ve been on through the years have basically consisted of going to an outside location – typically a conference room or meeting location, and we’ve spent the day working on a specific project or focused on a specific goal.  This past Friday, however, I was lucky enough to attend a retreat that truly felt like a retreat  – at the O’an Zendo Center here in Julian, Pennsylvania.  The O’an Zendo center is “devoted to the practice and teaching of Zen Buddhism” and it was a day to renew ourselves and our spirits and really take time to relax, refocus, and slow down.  I think our entire team needed this retreat more than we’ve needed a lot of things lately, and I am so thankful that I had an entire day to spend there.

We spent the day relaxing, learning about each other in ways that some might think are odd (touching each others hands, walking around each other in a large room with hardwood floors and huge windows with a view of the trees outside), and really looking at ourselves.  It was such a rare experience to have one day where you were told to do what you needed to do (including taking a nap if you felt you needed to)  because that’s what your body needed.  We had no technology, no pressures, no multi-tasking of things demanding our attention – just deep breaths, relaxation, and an awareness that we are all part of a bigger picture.  It was a really moving experience for several team members, including myself, and I find myself attempting to meditate now, even if it’s just for a few minutes to bring myself back to center and regain perspectives and focus.

I am so grateful to have spent the day learning about buddhism and meditation and even more thankful to have been able to learn those things as part of my work.

speaking with danah boyd

Yesterday was the TLT Symposium at Penn State and I was lucky enough to attend and be on the program committee this year. The symposium is always wonderful and this year the speakers were David Wiley and danah boyd – both fantastic.  It’s so energizing to hear people speak about things that you’re passionate about and watching people becoming excited, getting ideas, and learning from each other is so inspiring. I had two ‘favorite moments’ from the day. My favorite thing yesterday was listening to danah boyd talk about social networks and then getting to meet her afterward.  My second favorite moment was hearing an older professor stand up in a session about ‘friending’ on Facebook between instructors and students and talk about how important it is to him to have those personal connections with his students.

photo by colecamplese

TLT Symposium was a wonderful event, as always. Huge thanks to everyone that worked so hard to pull it all together.

TLT Symposium – reimagine

The TLT Symposium is coming up at Penn State and this year’s theme is ‘reimagine’. As we think about education and how things have changed in teaching and learning with technology, we start to reimagine the concepts of teacher/student and what exactly a ‘typical’ classroom is these days.

Leading up to the symposium, we recorded a podcast talking about our theme, the event, and the excitement that’s building.

Listen here!